Globally October is dedicated to Breast Cancer Awareness Campaign. In this special edition dedicated to the campaign here are exclusive interviews with survivors of Breast Cancer, their discovery, treatment process, support systems and journey so far. Be inspired
Margaret Odame Donkor, a loving wife and mother of two daughters, has faced many challenges in her life. Her battle with breast health issues began at the tender age of 18 when she discovered a lump in her breast. Fortunately, after a surgical removal, the lump tested negative for cancer, allowing her to continue with her normal life.
Years later, after getting married and giving birth, Margaret’s life took an unexpected turn around the age of 45. The lump reappeared in her breast, and in 2022, she went for a routine breast screening. This time, the oncologist recommended a series of tests including a mammogram, biopsies, and an ultrasound. The results revealed that Margaret had stage 3 invasive carcinoma in her left breast, and fibroadenoma in her right breast—both highly suspicious of cancer.
Margaret was candid about the financial burden that came with the cancer diagnosis. She shared that the treatment costs were overwhelming, with the lowest expense for any of the tests being around GHC 1,500. Despite the financial challenges, Margaret continued her journey of checkups and scans, including liver ultrasounds and MRI scans for both breasts.
Through it all, Margaret found immense support from her husband and children, who stood by her side during this difficult time. Their unwavering love gave her the strength to stay courageous, even in the face of fear.
Instead of succumbing to negativity, she chose to remain positive, focusing on love and mental strength. She pushed away all negativity and embraced a mindset of hope and resilience.
To others facing a breast cancer diagnosis, Margaret shares a powerful message:
“Be open. Get the support you need. Don’t listen to outside opinions but trust your doctors. Don’t be afraid. It’s not easy to receive this news, but you will be fine.”
Margaret’s story is a testament to the power of courage, positivity, and family support. Her journey, though challenging, serves as an inspiration for anyone battling breast cancer, reminding them that hope and resilience can light the way through even the darkest moments.
Finding Love In Support Systems – The Story of Mariam Abla:
(Four-Year Breast Cancer Survivor)
Q: Can you share how you discovered your breast cancer?
Mariam Abla: I’m Mariam Abla, 33 years old and a four-year breast cancer survivor. It all started in 2018 when I noticed a lump in my breast. I told my mother, but she thought it was nothing and recommended ointment. I used it for six months, but the lump kept growing. Later, my boyfriend suggested we try herbal treatments. I delayed going to the hospital for almost three years.
Q: How did you react when you were finally diagnosed?
Mariam Abla: I didn’t cry at the hospital, but as soon as I got home, I broke down. I’d already researched breast cancer and knew what I was facing. I spent weeks feeling anxious, but I knew I had to fight.
Q: What was your treatment process like?
Mariam Abla: I went through 10 cycles of chemotherapy, but it was tough. My boyfriend eventually left, and some family members didn’t support me, believing I was seeking attention. After chemo, I had surgery and was supposed to get radiation immediately, but due to delays, I had to wait six months.
Q: Who supported you during this time?
Mariam Abla: Friends and support groups really helped. I met people from foundations who shared resources and connected me with others facing similar challenges. They motivated me to keep going when I felt alone.
Q: What personal challenges did you face?
Mariam Abla: My family didn’t understand or support me. Some even said I was making it up. I had to leave home and handle treatments alone. Despite these challenges, I’m here today, grateful for those who stood by me.
Inspiring Others Using her Survival – Story of Phyllis Adoley Buckman
(Five-Year Breast Cancer Survivor)
Q: Can you share how you discovered your breast cancer?
Phyllis Adoley Buckman: I’m Phyllis Adoley Buckman, 55 years old and a five-year breast cancer survivor. It all began when I was at Achimota Hospital for a regular check-up, and the doctor told me there was a lump in my breast. He recommended that I go to Korle-Bu Hospital for further tests. The doctors at Korle-Bu confirmed the diagnosis: it was breast cancer. That news changed my life.
Q: How did you react to the diagnosis?
Phyllo Adoley Buckman: Initially, I couldn’t fully process the news. I felt numb. Once I was home, the reality hit me. I was anxious and scared, but I knew I had to put my trust in God and the doctors. I began my journey with strength from my faith, praying to stay strong for what was to come.
Q: What was your treatment process like?
Phyllo Adoley Buckman: The doctors created a treatment plan, starting with chemotherapy to shrink the tumor enough for surgery. I went through six cycles of chemotherapy, which was exhausting, but I kept going by God’s grace. After that, I had surgery, followed by 25 rounds of radiotherapy. Now, I am in my fifth year of hormone therapy, and I’m hoping to finish it soon. It’s been a challenging journey, but I’m grateful for the strength I’ve gained.
Q: How has your experience impacted your life?
Phyllo Adoley Buckman: After my treatment, I met another woman named Modesta who had also survived breast cancer. We felt it was our duty to help others facing this journey. For the past four years, we’ve visited Korle-Bu every Wednesday to encourage new patients. Seeing a survivor in person makes a big difference for them. We share our stories and photos of our journey to show them that it’s possible to overcome this illness. It has been a blessing to help others find strength.
Q: Let’s talk about the financial side of your treatment.
Phyllo Adoley Buckman: Breast cancer treatment is very expensive, and I’m grateful for the support of my family. It’s challenging, especially with tests and medications. I used to work in a salon, but my doctors advised me to stop due to the chemicals, so I had to make some sacrifices. But I’ve stayed positive and refuse to let any stigma hold me back. I choose to tell my story on my own terms.
Q: Has your perspective on life changed?
Phyllo Adoley Buckman: Absolutely. My faith has grown so much. I shared my journey with my pastor and prayed for strength alongside my medical treatment. With the support of my faith, family, and healthcare team, I’ve made it this far. The experience has taught me to treasure each day.
Q: Any words for someone currently battling breast cancer?
Phyllo Adoley Buckman: Breast cancer is not an easy journey, but don’t lose hope. Pray for strength and surround yourself with people who can support you. Each day, take a step forward, and remember that you’re stronger than you think.
